Hi everyone,

"Will I meet love?"

"Is this one the right one for me?"

"Should I stay with my husband or should I leave?"

These are the most common questions I get as a medium. And you know what I say?

"What do you think?"

Because it's not my responsibility to tell you who to love or how to live your life.

Let's say you're a woman who comes to me wondering if you'll meet the love of your life.

A picture flashes in my mind—a man. I describe him. You leave my reading and spend the rest of your life looking for THAT man.

But what if I was wrong?

What if the man I saw was someone you're going to meet who will help bring you to the RIGHT person? What if he's just a stepping stone?

I might have just sent you down the wrong path for years.

This is why I'd rather say less than more.

Sometimes when inspiration comes, I say things and think "My God, why did I say that?" And it usually turns out right—but I think that's BECAUSE I'm so careful the rest of the time.

When a medium reads your life—your relationships, your career, your future—that's not coming from spirit.

That's coming from YOUR aura. Your energy field. Everything you've experienced and lived through is stored there.

The more we practice reading that, the more information we can pick up: how you've been, how you're feeling, even who you've lost to the spirit world through your emotions.

But that's OUR intuition reading YOU. Not spirit telling us your future.

If spirit interferes? Yes, they can. But they will NOT tell you who you're going to meet, who you're going to love, where you're going to live, or if you should change your car.

That's your life to live.

People ask me all the time: "Why can't I feel my mum around me? Why won't my dad give me a sign?"

When my mum passed, I felt nothing. NOTHING.

I was sitting there holding her hand when she took her last breath. And I felt absolutely nothing.

Maybe I wanted it too much. Maybe it's that simple—I don't need it because I already know. Maybe our egos want signs more than we actually need them.

Or maybe spirit sees us more clearly than we see ourselves, and they know exactly how much they need to give us to move on with our path.

I don't know. I'm just rambling with my philosophical thoughts here.

Because honestly? We don't really know what happens when we go to the spirit world. How can we? We're not there yet.

I say this all the time: in all honesty, I am the biggest liar to myself.

And I believe that about other people too. It's our animal instinct. Our defense mechanisms kick in so fast we don't even see them.

Why are people so stubborn? Why is it "my way or the highway"? Why do mediums think they know EXACTLY how the spirit world works?

It works through you the way YOU believe it works. It works through me the way I believe it works.

That's why I challenge the mechanics of mediumship constantly. We need to evolve. We can't stay stuck in old ways just because "that's how it's always been done."

Everybody always thinks we're right, you know?

But what is right FOR YOU? That's what you should ask yourself.

When you feel comfortable in here (pointing to heart), it should be right for you.

I've been abused in every way you can imagine in my life. But what hurt me most—more than any other abuse—was spiritual abuse.

Because this is the purest thing for me. This is where I come from. This is the glow within me.

For someone to rape that, or stamp on it, or destroy someone because of their own ego or for fraudulent mediumship? I can't stand it.

We're supposed to be kind people. In spiritualism we talk about "love and light, love and light, love and light."

And then we turn our backs on people anyway because our ego is hurt.

Be a kind human being.

Because when I go home, I'm not going home as "Mia the Medium." I go home as Mia the human being.

And was I a good person when I was living here? That's something to think about.

I recorded something about all of this—the questions I refuse to answer, why you should never fully trust a medium (including me), what's really happening in a reading, and the ethical responsibility we don't talk about enough.

It's honest. Maybe too honest. But someone needs to say it.

Watch: "Will I Meet Love? Should I Leave My Husband?" (What Mediums Won't Tell You)

The spiritual community needs more honesty and less performance.

More kindness and less ego.

More questions and less certainty.

That's what I'm trying to do with my work. Even if it means telling you not to trust me.

P.S. - The power of the mind can be your biggest friend or your worst enemy. Choose wisely what you believe—and who you trust with your life decisions.

P.S. - You can always reply to this email with your thoughts or questions. I read every message and respond personally. Your presence in this community means everything to me. 💜

Much love to you all
//Mia

Mia Ottosson is a Spiritual Medium, Healer, Spirit Artist and Author and has been working with Spirit and teaching for over 30 years.

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